| Home | Wkly Message | Archives | Video | Reports Of Healing | Prayer | Meditation |
| Palm Springs / Desert Cities Religious Science |
Click here for sample prayer-treatments
* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *
RevBates.tv - Global Study Groups
Begin one or join one today!

Archived Messages

Radical Rev. Bates
RevBates.tv Global - Weekly Message To The Masses (February 26, 2006)      

        "All you owe any person in the world is love, and love is wishing for everyone what you wish for yourself - health, happiness, and all the blessings of life." ... Dr. Joseph Murphy, The Power of Your Subconscious Mind

     "How can you mend a broken heart?"
... is one of the most sought after answers for so many people.  There are hundreds of self-help books that deal with answering this question and hundreds of self-help programs to help people "mend their broken hearts."  A "search" on Yahoo produces 1,720,000 results ... this is how varied the responses are to this question of the heart.  And for most people the self-help books, seminars, love and relationship gurus and Internet websites ... will do little to help them.  I can honestly tell you that I have had lots of experience in dealing with the "broken heart" experience ... personally.  So, the answer that I know is the Truth, is from personal experience and from the experiences of the many hundreds of people who have come to me for spiritual counseling regarding this subject.

    
The answer lies in the question ... and it is a "tough" answer at that ... one that few people will honestly deal with ... because the answer "appears" to lack compassion ... and so people will talk around it  ... write around it ... and dance around it ... but unless and until the answer is discussed directly and without emotionality ... the experience will be "smoothed over" but never "healed" ... and may be experienced over and over again.  And the answer is, "this person is not for you" ... this is the truth.  And even though most people can accept this intellectually ... by and large, they do not accept it emotionally.

   "Broken heartedness" is an experience of "loss" ... and in Truth, we never lose that which is ours ... never.  And we cannot keep that which is not ours to keep.  Tears, suffering, pleading, begging and prayer ... will not give us that which is not ours.  And thinking that something is wrong with us or that we must have done something to bring this experience into our life ... will not calm the emotions or change the truth.  We must accept the Truth.  "It is the Father's Good pleasure to give to you .." stated the Master Mind Jesus.  But, the Father only gives us what is ours ... not the person or thing that is not.

    So, what is it that will calm the emotions?  It is Love ... not the emotional love that we receive from a person ... but the Divine Love that flows through our heart as we turn to God ... blessing the person who is no longer in our life and thanking God for the strength and faith to love again ... just as passionately and with just as must hope and trust as we did the first time.  It is trusting to the point of "knowing" that we never lose ... that God is always preparing something or someone to fill the void in our hearts.  And as we turn in faith to the Infinite, we will find, without a doubt, that our feelings of love have increased in capacity and in strength.  A deep trust in God ... automatically creates within us a greater capacity to love and to be loved.

   There is a statement that most of you will be familiar with, "it is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all."  This is not true although it appears to be comforting to some.  The truth is ... is that it is better to love and to love again and again ... than ever to feel that we have lost.  Feelings of "loss" can bring all kinds of difficulties into our experience.  Feelings of loss can appear in our health, finances and even in our career ... we can never be sure where it may show up.  We must never dwell on loss.  It is the strongest denial of God we can make.


    There is One mind; in this One mind there is someone for everyone who "desires" to share their life with someone.  Mind already knows who that person is ... all we need do is trust and know that this person arrives into our life in the right and perfect time and in the right and perfect way ... and as they do, we will give them our love, our trust and our loyalty ... even if they are not the first in whom we have shared these things ... or the second or the third ... or more ... for Love is never lost, lessened, or diminished in Power ... and the Power of Love is at the Center of our Being ... at the core of us ... Love ever-lasting ... Love without end. 

And So It Is!  

Letting Love Use Me In Its Own Good Way,
Rev. Bates

| Home | Wkly Message | Archives | Hollywood/Los Angeles | Palm Springs | San Fernando/Pacoima |
| Dr. O. C. Smith | Dr. Ernest Holmes| Dr. Juanita DunnDr. Robert Bitzer | Video | Prayer |
| Dr. Joseph Murphy | Charles Fillmore | The Radical Rabbi Jesus | Healing |


"I have been all things unholy.  If God can work through me, He can work
through anyone." 
-
St. Francis of Assisi